Making memories should not come at a cost. Memories are priceless, and they should be just that! Free to make!
The summer holidays are upon us. The routine flies out the window. No school runs, clubs or after-school activities. All of a sudden, the days feel longer.
There was a time when I’d dread just that. Long days to fill and the pressure to keep everyone busy. The pressure to do things, visit places and spend money on pointless stuff just to make “memories”. It can be exhausting trying to come up with ways to fill time.
Don’t get me wrong, when the budget allows bigger things, days out or long weekends away, then we love to seize the moment and make the most of it. But, when your bank account needs a break then it’s time to reevaluate what’s important. What is is that matters most?
Time – What your children really want is time. Time with you. Time spent laughing and playing. Time spent making memories with the people they love.
The summer holidays can put a strain on you and your wallet. So here are some wholesome, free and fun things you can do with your children this summer that will create core memories they’ll carry with them forever.
A treasure hunt and picnic –
Make your own treasure maps at home. Draw a map of your local area and write a list of “treasures” to find. A giant leaf, a heart-shaped rock, a feather… think of little things you can pop into a bag and take home to admire after your adventure.
Chuck some snacks into a backpack and find a spot along the way to sit, chat and enjoy your picnic. Take a moment to slow down and really enjoy your time together.
Top tip: For an extra bit of magic, stain your treasure maps with a wet tea bag. My dad used to do this for us when we were kids. We’d leave them to dry, then he’d carefully singe the edges with a lighter to make them look like ancient pirate maps. It felt like real treasure hunting.

Family cooking time –
Make a meal together and let the kids choose the menu. Look up the ingredients together, find everything you need and make sure everyone has a role in the cooking process. Then you can all sit down and enjoy something you’ve created together.
It helps children feel a sense of responsibility, gives you the chance to teach them how to safely use kitchen utensils, and it’s a great way for older children to build a little independence too.
Top tip: Add a little extra magic to the table. Fold some napkins, light a candle, and ask the kids to make place cards with everyone’s names on them. It’s such a simple thing, but it makes the meal feel really special.

Get outside –
Nature is free, y’all!
There’s nothing better than getting outside amongst the trees. Kids love to run, climb and explore. Their little bodies need movement, fresh air and room to breathe.
I’ve spoken before about the benefits of spending time outdoors as a family (read here). It’s also a brilliant way to get your own exercise in too. Join them with the running and climbing. Build a den, lie on the grass and watch the clouds drift by. See what shapes you can spot.
If you’re lucky enough to live near water, go for a paddle. Skim stones, splash around, get wet, laugh and embrace the messiness of it all.
After all, kids are washable… and so are you.

Make a den –
My brother and I used to spend hours making dens, whether it was out in the woods or at home.
For an indoor den, grab some blankets or sheets, a couple of chairs and build your own little fortress. Get creative, let the kids take the lead and watch their imaginations come to life.
Let them eat their lunch inside. Let them read their books in there. Let them sleep in it if they want to.
Those late-night chats with your siblings in a den you spent all day building are the kind of memories that stay with you forever.
If the weather’s kind, why not build one outside in the garden too?
Top tip: Clothes pegs are your best friend for keeping blankets and sheets in place.

At the end of the day, your children won’t remember every expensive day out or every toy you bought them. They’ll remember how they felt. They’ll remember belly laughs over a picnic, dirty feet after an adventure, the excitement of finding “treasure”, and the den that became their castle for the day.
The best memories are so often found in the simplest moments.
So take the pressure off yourself this summer. Slow down, say yes to the little things, and soak it all in.
Because these are the days they’ll remember. And if we’re lucky, they’re the days we’ll remember too.


































