Tag: family

  • A pre Christmas break in the New Forest

    A pre Christmas break in the New Forest

    Ormonde House Hotel

    A Winter Escape at Ormonde House Hotel, Lyndhurst

    Highlights from our stay

    Tucked beside the gentle edges of the New Forest National Park, where wild ponies wander past and the trees seem to exhale calm, Ormonde House Hotel is the kind of place that immediately slows your pace. It’s close enough to Lyndhurst’s high street for convenience, yet close enough to the forest that you can be among the trees within minutes. It’s comfort and countryside side by side — exactly what you want from a short winter break.

    Our room for the night (room 6)

    From the moment we arrived, the atmosphere was warm and welcoming. All the staff were friendly, the service was fantastic, and as a family travelling with a baby, we instantly felt looked after. Our little Ivy had everything she needed, from a travel cot in the room to a highchair waiting at breakfast. It made our stay feel easy and stress-free — a huge win for any parent. She slept literally like a baby too, so we know she felt comfortable.

    Ivy loving the hotels Christmas tree

    Where the Forest Adventure Begins

    The New Forest spreads out from the hotel’s doorstep like an invitation. You can wander through ancient woodland, spot ponies at the roadside, or simply enjoy the fresh air as you stroll along quiet paths. Whether you’re an enthusiastic hiker, a casual walker, or a family looking for gentle outdoor adventures, this area has something for everyone.

    Sundays Hike

    Festive Forest Feels

    Visiting during the festive season adds an extra layer of charm.

    Ivy and Daddy enjoying the Christmas displays

    During our stay, we enjoyed the Christmas light switch-on in Lyndhurst. A couple of mulled wines and a firework display later, we headed to The Forage for a delicious wood-fired pizza and Ivy’s favourite – Spaghetti bolognese! The ideal comfort food for a winter evening and the staff were very attentive. Back at the hotel, we wrapped up the night with a hot drink and some quiet time — simple, cosy, and exactly what we needed before the busy Christmas rush. We even watch The Snowman in bed with Ivy and seeing her little face filled with excitement was precious.

    A Pre-Christmas Escape Worth Taking

    If December tends to feel frantic, this is the kind of escape that helps you reset. Mornings at Ormonde House start slowly, with spot-on coffee and a hearty breakfast to ease you into the day. Even with a baby in tow, everything felt calm and manageable.

    Photo credit – Ormonde House Hotel

    Afternoons can be spent exploring the forest, browsing local shops, or dipping in and out of festive events. Evenings are peaceful — relax with a drink in the hotel bar, a perfect chance to unwind before heading back into the whirlwind of the holidays.

    It’s a getaway that reminds you how important it is to pause, breathe, and reconnect — with nature, with each other, and with yourself.

    A Reason to Return

    After a relaxed wintery morning, I joined the winter launch of New Forest Hikes — a guided walk that now runs regularly from the hotel. Starting and ending right at the front door, it’s an ideal activity for anyone wanting to explore the forest more deeply.

    Sundays hike

    Our guide, Amy, was brilliant. She knows the New Forest so well and took us along routes we never would’ve found on our own. Her passion for the area — and her fascinating backstory — made the experience even more memorable. If you’re staying at the hotel when one of her hikes is running, I’d highly recommend joining.

    With the staff’s kindness, the hotel’s comfort, the AMAZING post hike cake and coffee and the surrounding forest’s charm, we left feeling refreshed and already talking about the next hike on the 14th of December.

    Stay Connected & Book Smart

    Call to book directly –
    📞 Ormonde House Hotel: 023 8028 2806

    If you’d like to keep up with upcoming forest events, future guided hikes, and latest offers, be sure to follow both New Forest Hikes and Ormonde House Hotel on Instagram. It’s the easiest way to stay in the loop — and to benefit from any exclusive offers available when booking directly through the hotel.

    The hotel are also running a Giveaway! Follow the link below to enter 👇

  • The Slow Cooker — A Cheat Code for Parents

    The Slow Cooker — A Cheat Code for Parents

    The slow cooker is my speciality 🤣

    I don’t know about you, but deciding what to have for dinner every single day can be tedious. Don’t get me wrong — I love cooking. Feeding people has always been a kind of therapeutic practice for me. There’s something so fulfilling about putting love into food and watching it put smiles on faces.

    But when you’re in the midst of a crazy busy week — juggling work, school runs, laundry mountains, and a never-ending to-do list — cooking can stop feeling like therapy and start feeling like just another chore.

    Let’s be honest: time and parenting go together about as well as toddlers and white sofas. Between packed schedules and the nightly “what’s for dinner?” interrogation, the idea of calmly preparing a wholesome meal can feel like a fairytale.

    Enter the slow cooker — the unsung hero of family life and the best friend of anyone trying to keep the weekly shop on budget. You throw in a few ingredients before the day begins (or the night before), and by the time you’re home, your house smells like comfort. It’s basically culinary witchcraft, minus the cauldron — and bonus points, it’s cheaper than a takeaway (and healthier).

    Why the Slow Cooker Is Every Parent’s Secret Weapon

    Less decision fatigue. Dinner’s sorted before breakfast is over.

    One pot, minimal mess. Because who has time for a sink full of dishes?

    Budget brilliance. Cheaper cuts, tins, and cupboard staples become hearty family favourites.

    Family togetherness. Dinner’s ready, the table’s set (well, mostly), and everyone can actually eat together — screens off.

    So dust off that slow cooker and let’s dive into three recipes (beef, mince, and chicken) that busy, budget-savvy parents will love.

    Jump to Recipe

    1️⃣ Slow Cooker Beef Stew (BBC Good Food)
    2️⃣ Slow Cooker Chilli con Carne (BBC Good Food)
    3️⃣ Marry Me Chicken Pasta (Taming Twins)

    Photo credit BBC Food

    1. Slow Cooker Beef Stew (The Classic Crowd-Pleaser)

    BBC Recipe Link: 👉 Slow Cooker Beef Stew — BBC Good Food

    This is the kind of recipe that makes your home smell like a hug. Tender beef, soft carrots, herbs, and a gravy so rich it feels like a reward for surviving another weekday.

    Why parents love it:

    Works perfectly with affordable cuts (braising or stewing beef).

    Feeds a crowd — and leftovers freeze beautifully.

    Sneak in any veg you like — picky eaters rarely notice!

    Parent hack: Make double and freeze half for next week’s “I can’t even” day.

    Photo credit BBC Food

    2. Slow Cooker Chilli con Carne (The Family Favourite)

    BBC Recipe Link: 👉 Slow Cooker Chilli con Carne — BBC Good Food

    This one’s a total lifesaver: hearty, filling, and adaptable for the whole family. Mild for the kids (unless they like the heat, mine do!), spicy for the grown-ups — and it tastes even better the next day.

    Why it’s brilliant:

    Uses store-cupboard staples and inexpensive mince.

    Makes enough for lunchboxes or leftovers.

    Serve with some grated cheese, sour cream and nachos, if you’re feeling fancy!

    Photo credit – Taming Twins

    3. “Marry Me” Chicken Pasta (Taming Twins)

    Recipe Link: 👉 Marry Me Chicken — Taming Twins

    The name says it all — creamy, dreamy, and just romantic enough that you might fall in love (with your dinner). This BBC Good Food favourite is usually made on the hob, but it adapts beautifully to a slow cooker for hands-free comfort.

    Why it’s perfect for parents:

    Rich in taste, costs little.

    Chicken thighs or breasts both work.

    The sauce clings to pasta like a culinary love story.

    Serving tip: Add spinach for extra colour and nutrients (bonus points if your kids don’t pick it out).

    No slow cooker? No problem! Here are three budget-friendly options that will have you slow-cooking like a pro in no time:

    1. Crock-Pot CSC080 Slow Cooker
    Price: £14.99
    Capacity: 1.8L (Serves 1-2 People)
    Why it’s great: Compact and energy-efficient — perfect for smaller households or singles.
    Link: Amazon UK

    2. Daewoo 3.5L Slow Cooker
    Price: £20.99
    Capacity: 3.5L
    Why it’s great: Large enough for families, yet still affordable.
    Link: Amazon UK

    3. Morphy Richards Evoke Sear & Stew Slow Cooker
    Price: £29.99
    Capacity: 3.5L
    Why it’s great: Stylish design with a sear function — cook your meat before slow-cooking for extra flavour.
    Link: Amazon UK

    You Can Literally Chuck Anything in a Slow Cooker

    Recipe or not, it always seems to turn out well! (For me anyway… I’m not sure my partner would say the same!) The slow cooker is wonderfully forgiving. Leftover veg, a random tin of beans, a forgotten chicken breast — toss them in, add some seasoning, and let it work its magic. Dinner’s served, and your creativity gets a pat on the back.

    Slow Cooker Success Tips for Busy, Budget-Savvy Parents

    Prep ahead. Chop and measure the night before.

    Use cheaper cuts. Chicken thighs, beef shin, or turkey mince — all perfect.

    Don’t overfill. Leave space for simmering magic.

    Batch cook and freeze. One effort, three future dinners.

    Shop smart. Frozen veg and tins work wonders.

    Eat together. Even if it’s noisy, messy, or someone’s still in uniform — it counts.

    The slow cooker doesn’t just save time; it saves money, energy, and your sanity. It turns affordable ingredients into meals that feel like home — and gives you the one thing we all crave most: a quiet moment to breathe (and maybe even sit down).

    Final Thoughts

    With winter creeping in, there’s no better time to let your slow cooker shine. It’s comforting, budget-friendly, and basically the culinary equivalent of a warm hug. Toss in your ingredients, press a button, and let dinner take care of itself — because, let’s face it, you’ve earned it!

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  • The magic of Sauna for busy parents

    The magic of Sauna for busy parents

    Parenting is a wild, wonderful adventure. Some days are sprinkled with laughter, messy kisses, spontaneous dance parties in the kitchen, and stories that get sillier with every retelling. Some days feel like trying to wrangle a tornado of tiny humans, snacks, and runaway socks — but still full of joy, in the best possible way.

    Amidst all this delightful chaos, every parent deserves a little pause — a tiny, warm escape where you can take a breath, reconnect with yourself, and just be. Enter the sauna: your hot and blissful hideaway.

    Why Parents Deserve Saunas

    Whether you’re a mum, dad, grandparent, or the lucky adult in charge of bedtime, caring for children is full of moments that make your heart soar. But even the most joyful adventures can leave you a little tired, a little achy, or a little frazzled.

    Saunas are a place to slow down, let the day melt away, and reconnect with yourself — a gentle reminder that you CAN put yourself first, it’s not a crime. Self care is vital.

    What a Sauna Does (and Why Families Love It)

    Step into the warmth, and instantly… ahhhh. Your muscles sigh, your circulation perks up, and those happy little endorphins start doing a tiny dance.

    You’ll sweat, yes — but the good kind of sweat. The kind that makes you feel like you’re melting away the little stresses and carrying the lightness of the day ahead with you.

    Here’s what that heat brings to busy parents:

    Stress relief: Press pause on the endless planning and enjoy a rare moment of stillness.

    Better sleep: Even if little humans wake you at 2 a.m., the sleep you do get is deeper and more restorative.

    Muscle and joint relief: From carrying children to squatting up and down all day, picking toys and clothes up off the floor — the warmth eases and restores tired muscles.

    Energy boost: Circulation improves, your body feels lighter, and you step back into life with renewed sparkle.

    Skin glow: Sweating flushes out impurities, leaving you with that fresh, radiant glow that says, “I’ve got this — mostly.”

    Immune boost: The heat gently strengthens your immune system — perfect for parents constantly surrounded by coughs, colds, and the dreaded ‘back to school germs’.

    Beaulieu River (yoga retreat) – 📷 my own

    Family time

    If your children are older – why not visit a sauna together? It could be incredibly beneficial for you all. Taking that time to unwind together and create space for conversation all while improving your health and well-being, sounds like a great example to set for future generations.

    Quick Reality Check

    Pregnant? Skip the sauna for now — high heat isn’t safe during pregnancy.

    Health conditions? Check with your GP before using a sauna.

    Hydration: Keep sipping that water! Nobody wants to be dehydrated!

    Croyde Bay – 📷 my own

    My Favourite Saunas

    Now, full honesty: saunas themselves aren’t for everyone — but views? They’re irresistible.

    I’ve visited saunas across the country, and the scenery always adds something extra to the experience. Some of my favourites include Croyde Bay, where the coastal air meets the heat perfectly, and The Lime Wood Hotel, where you can unwind while looking out over serene forest views.

    Photo credit – Limewood

    Closer to home – Solace Sauna on Lepe Beach is my happy place. With wood-fired heat, Bailey’s warm welcome, and the forest and sea stretching out around you, it’s a place where you can laugh, exhale, and remember who you are!

    What really sets Solace Sauna apart is the attention to detail. The little sauna hats keep your head cool in the heat, and the traditional whisking practice is a rejuvenating ritual that boosts circulation and enhances the experience. (Follow Solace Sauna on Instagram!)

    Beyond the sauna itself, Solace Sauna feels like part of a wonderful local community focused on wellness and connection — a place where people come together, recharge, and share the experience.

    Bailey says it best:

    “Many families visit Solace Sauna to spend quality time together. In today’s socioeconomic climate and technology driven culture, sauna offers an accessible way for families to connect with each-other and nature year-round while experiencing the physical, mental, and social benefits of contrast therapy.
    In just an hour, you can feel completely reset and help regulate your nervous system. Be that with your family, or having a mindful break from the kids”

    “I have regular families who come to celebrate birthdays, spend time together, and activity to do away from screens and an outdoor activity all year round – winter dosent mean you have to stay in with the kids.”

    Book you visit to Solace Sauna HERE 👈

    The Simple Hack That Makes It Happen

    Here’s what works for me: I book ahead and pay upfront. That way, there’s no backing out — and I’m guaranteed my little window of peace.

    Even half an hour or an hour of sauna time can feel like a mini-vacation — a pause filled with calming heat and lightness — the perfect antidote to a busy family life.


    So…

    Next time life is filled with tiny hands, big imaginations, and spontaneous dance-offs in the living room that leave you slightly jaded, remember: a sauna isn’t just heat.

    It’s your pause button. Your secret hiding spot. Your little bubble of calm and wonder.

    Because even parents who can do it all deserve a moment to sparkle — and maybe a little warm indulgence too. ✨️🔥🍃

  • The Magic of a Nine-Year Age Gap

    The Magic of a Nine-Year Age Gap

    The Magic of a Nine-Year Age Gap

    When we decided to try for another baby — nine years after having my first — I’ll admit, it felt a little surreal. Life had found its rhythm. Henry was growing up fast, and for a long time, I thought my little family was complete. But something in me just knew there was still space for one more little soul.

    And then came Ivy. 💕 From the moment she arrived, she filled every quiet space we didn’t even realize was waiting for her. She completed us in the most beautiful, unexpected way.

    Watching Henry with her has been one of the greatest joys of my life. He tells me all the time how much he loves her. The other day he said, “Mum, Ivy’s the only person who doesn’t think I talk too much,” (He’s a chatterbox just like his Mum 👀) which pretty much sums up their relationship — full of sweetness, chaos, and a lot of giggles. He’s protective, patient, and so proud to be her big brother. Of course, there are moments of madness (a 9-year-old’s Minecraft world doesn’t always mix well with a baby who loves pressing buttons 😅), but somehow, it all works.

    If you’re worried about a big age gap between your children — don’t be. It’s one of the most amazing things ever. Sure, every family dynamic has its pros and cons, but a bigger age gap brings its own kind of magic.

    Here are just a few reasons why a bigger age gap can be so special:

    1. The bond is pure and intentional

    Older siblings want to help, to love, and to be involved. There’s no competition — just admiration and care. Watching that kind of love unfold is incredibly heartwarming.

    2. They balance each other out

    One brings the calm, the other brings the chaos — and somehow, it’s the perfect mix. You get the best of both worlds: the quieter, more reflective moments with an older child and the silly, unpredictable fun of a baby.

    3. Built-in role model

    Your older child becomes a teacher, a storyteller, a guide. Henry delights in showing Ivy how things work, and she watches him like he’s a tiny celebrity — which, to him, is clearly fame.

    4. A deeper appreciation

    Having another baby later often brings a sense of calm and gratitude. You realize how fleeting each stage is, and you soak up every moment — even the sleepless ones.

    5. A little helper (and part-time entertainer)

    Here’s one of the major perks: your nine-year-old can actually keep an eye on the baby while you dash to the loo or try to make dinner without burning it. It’s like having a built-in babysitter — unpaid, slightly dramatic, but surprisingly effective.

    Having children with a bigger age gap means the noise levels might fluctuate wildly — from teenage sighs to baby squeals — but somehow it all blends into the sweetest kind of soundtrack. There’s laughter in one room and lullabies in another, and in between it all, a growing friendship that melts my heart daily.

    So yes, our house is a mix of giggles, tantrums, homework, and naptimes — but it’s also overflowing with love.

    A nine-year age gap might not have been what I first imagined, but now I can’t picture it any other way. Ivy completes our family, and Henry reminds me every single day just how lucky we are. 💫