Tag: nature

  • Go outside – Nature heals

    Go outside – Nature heals

    We aren’t wired to sit inside all day.

    As humans, we need sunlight on our skin, fresh air in our lungs, the rustle of trees and the sound of birdsong. These things aren’t luxuries—they’re essential.

    Time outdoors brings us back to ourselves. It grounds us, steadies our thoughts, and reminds us that we’re part of something bigger. Quite simply, nature helps us feel human again.

    Why the Outdoors Matters for Our Health

    Spending time outside doesn’t just feel good—it has real, measurable benefits for both our mental and physical wellbeing. Here’s why:

    Boosts mood and reduces stress – Exposure to natural light helps regulate our circadian rhythms and increases serotonin levels, which can improve mood and reduce anxiety. Even a short walk outdoors can lower cortisol (the stress hormone).

    Improves focus and mental clarity – Nature gives our overstimulated minds a break. Studies show that time in green spaces can improve concentration, creativity, and even memory—for both adults and children.

    Supports physical health
    Fresh air and movement go hand in hand. Whether it’s walking, climbing, or simply exploring, being outdoors encourages gentle exercise, supports heart health, and can improve sleep quality (meaning the little sleep that parents and children do get, is more restorative).

    Strengthens the immune system – Exposure to natural environments—especially woodland areas—has been linked to improved immune function, thanks to cleaner air and beneficial plant compounds. So there’s no harm in letting your little ones dig around in the mud collecting sticks and stones!

    There’s also something powerful about physically connecting with nature. Touching soil, trees, and plants isn’t just sensory—it can trigger real chemical responses in the body. Soil contains a natural microorganism called Mycobacterium vaccae, which research suggests can stimulate the release of serotonin, helping to lift mood and promote a sense of calm. Similarly, contact with plants and trees exposes us to natural oils and compounds—often called phytoncides—that have been linked to reduced stress levels and improved immune function. Even something as simple as walking barefoot on grass or running your hands through leaves can help regulate the nervous system, lowering stress and creating a feeling of balance.

    Living in the New Forest National Park, we’re incredibly lucky to have nature right on our doorstep. Long woodland walks, open skies, and winding trails are part of our everyday life. We spend hours wandering, noticing the seasons change, and letting the children explore freely. But I know that not everyone has access to forests or open countryside—and that’s okay. There are other ways to enjoy the outside no matter where you live.

    How to Bring the Outdoors to You

    Even if you live in a city or don’t have easy access to green spaces, there are simple ways to recreate those benefits wherever you are:

    Create a mini green space at home – Add plants to your home, balcony, or garden. Even a few pots of herbs or flowers can make a difference. Caring for plants can be calming and grounding in itself.

    Prioritise natural light – Open curtains, sit near windows, or take breaks outside during the day. Morning sunlight in particular helps regulate sleep and boost energy levels.

    Bring nature to your routine – Walk a different route to school, visit a local park, or spend time outside after dinner. Small, consistent moments outdoors add up.

    Engage your senses – Play nature sounds, light a natural candle, or use essential oils like pine or eucalyptus. It might sound simple, but sensory cues can help mimic the calming effects of being outdoors.

    Slow down and notice – Whether it’s watching clouds, listening to birds, or feeling the wind, take a few minutes to be present. Nature isn’t just a place—it’s a mindset we can access anywhere.

    Why the Outdoors is So Important for Children

    Children are naturally drawn to the outdoors—it’s where their curiosity thrives. Giving them time outside isn’t just beneficial, it’s vital for their development. Here’s why:

    Encourages imagination and creativity – Nature doesn’t come with instructions. A stick becomes a wand, a den, or a fishing rod. Outdoor play sparks creativity in ways screens simply can’t.

    Builds confidence and resilience – Climbing trees, navigating uneven ground, and exploring new spaces help children learn their limits, solve problems, and build independence.

    Supports emotional wellbeing
    Time outdoors can reduce anxiety, improve mood, and help children regulate their emotions. It offers space to breathe, move, and simply be.

    At its heart, spending time outdoors isn’t about grand adventures or picture-perfect days. It’s about small, meaningful moments—muddy boots, rosy cheeks, shared laughter, and quiet pauses under open skies.
    Wherever you are, there’s always a way to step a little closer to nature.

    And sometimes, that’s exactly what we need.

    Further Reading & Sources –

    Research has shown that a natural soil bacterium (Mycobacterium vaccae) may help boost serotonin levels and support mood regulation.
    (Lowry et al., 2007)

    Studies on “forest bathing” have found that trees release natural compounds (called phytoncides) which can reduce stress and support the immune system.
    (Li, 2010)

    Large reviews of multiple studies confirm that regular access to green space is associated with better physical and mental health.
    (Twohig-Bennett & Jones, 2018)

    Spending time in nature has been linked to reduced stress, lower anxiety, and improved mental wellbeing.
    (Bratman et al., 2015)

    Time outdoors can also improve focus, memory, and overall cognitive function.
    (Berman, Jonides & Kaplan, 2008)

    Even simply seeing natural environments has been shown to support healing and recovery.
    (Ulrich, 1984)

  • Forest adventures made easy – What to pack for a day out exploring with the kids

    Taking kids into the forest isn’t just a casual stroll—it’s an adventure, full of opportunities for exploration, learning, and discovery. That said, it’s also an exercise in patience and parenting. Within ten minutes, someone will be hungry, too hot, too cold, tired, or in desperate need of a wee.

    I’ve spent so many days with my kids trudging through mud, climbing trees, and building dens — the kind of messy, magical days that stay with you forever. I hope that years from now, we’ll all look back and laugh about the muddy puddle tantrums and those heartbreaking moments when we had to leave a beloved stick or rock behind.

    Before your next outdoor adventure, grab your backpack (or three) and pack smart. Here’s what you really need to survive—and thrive—a day in the woods with kids.

    Henry aged 5

    ☔ 1. Packaway Raincoats

    Waterproofs save lives. Whether it’s raining, sunny, or somewhere in between, a lightweight, packable raincoat comes in handy. Use it for rain, as an extra layer for “I’m cold” moments, or even for unexpected UV protection on sunny days.

    🌱 2. Packaway Ground Sheet

    Somewhere to sit that isn’t a muddy patch? Yes, please.
    A ground sheet doubles as a picnic blanket, emergency shade, or a spot to pile the ever-growing collection of sticks, pinecones, and “treasures” your kids insist on collecting.

    🏕 3. Packaway Hammock

    Optional, but highly recommended. Easy to set up, a hammock gives you the perfect spot to relax and watch the kids explore, soaking up nature without feeling like you’re missing half the fun.

    🧻 4. Toilet Roll & Baby Wipes

    Nature calls. A lot.
    From impromptu tree “bathrooms” to messy hands and faces, wipes save your sanity. Trust me—parents know.

    🗑️ 5. Bin Bag

    Leave no trace.
    Carry your rubbish home, keep the forest beautiful, and teach your kids the importance of caring for the environment.

    🧊 6. Refrigerated Snack Bag

    The lifeblood of any outdoor adventure.
    Pack more than you think you need—kids will remind you they’re starving every five minutes. Bonus: snacks can double as bargaining tools for minor meltdowns.

    💧 7. Water Bottles with Clips

    Clip them to backpacks and avoid the constant chorus of “Mum, I’m thirsty!” Hydration equals happiness—and fewer complaints.

    🚑 8. First Aid Kit

    Plasters, antiseptic wipes, and eye-cleaning drops (yes, sticks go in eyes more often than you think) are essentials.
    If you believe a day in the forest can happen without a few scrapes, you either have perfect kids—or you’re new to parenting.

    🦟 9. Bug Spray & Suncream

    Even on cloudy days, bugs are relentless and sunburns sneak up. Apply generously and often—consider it a full-contact sport.

    🔋 10. Portable Charger

    Your phone is your camera, map, and lifeline. Keep it charged—you’ll want those snaps of muddy faces, puddle crashes, and “look what I found” moments.

    🎒 Bonus Tip: Let the Kids Carry Stuff

    If they’re old enough, give them a small backpack. Sure, it’ll probably end up full of sticks and pinecones, but they’ll feel useful—and you’ll carry less.

    Henry aged 7

    🌳 Final Thoughts

    A day in the forest with kids isn’t about perfection or Instagram-worthy moments. It’s about snacks, mud, minor injuries, questionable decisions, and, most importantly, fun.

    Pack smart. Live in the moment. And remember: if no one cries, did you even leave the house?

    Henry aged 4

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  • Why a Walk in the Forest is the Best Free Therapy for You and Your Kids (Yes, Even When You’re Up to Your Nips in Mud)

    Why a Walk in the Forest is the Best Free Therapy for You and Your Kids (Yes, Even When You’re Up to Your Nips in Mud)

    Let’s be honest — parenting is magical and rewarding and all the other lovely things people say in Instagram captions… but it’s also hectic, loud, and occasionally involves negotiating with a 9-year-old who’s furious because you won’t let them eat crisps for breakfast, while simultaneously fishing a remote control out of the 9-month-old’s mouth.

    Enter: The Forest.

    There is nothing quite like bundling the kids up and heading into the great outdoors. Specifically, the New Forest National Park, which, in my humble and slightly muddy opinion, is the ultimate parenting hack — and it won’t cost you a penny.

    Henry aged 6. Chasing the sunset.

    A Muddy Pro’s Guide to Forest Walking
    As a seasoned dog walker for many years, I’m no stranger to mud, squelch, and the occasional slippy slope that leads to a puddle that looks a lot deeper than it should. If there’s one thing I’ve learned, it’s how to navigate these beautiful woods without needing the air ambulance to come and rescue me from a sudden sinkhole on a Sunday afternoon.

    So when I recommend walks for you and your family — pram-friendly, child-safe, and absolutely fun — you can trust that they’ve been tested and approved by someone who knows her mud.

    Henry age 3 loving the muddy puddles

    Sticks, Stones & Sanity Breaks

    You know what the forest has? Fresh air, wide open spaces, and an infinite number of sticks and rocks. That’s right — infinite.

    Your child will enthusiastically collect every. single. one. of them and insist on bringing them home as if they’re sacred relics.

    Here, they can climb trees, run free without a care, and throw rocks into streams to their heart’s content — all while you soak up some much-needed calm (or at least try to).

    Always up a tree. Henry aged 6.

    Physical & Mental Wellbeing (Disguised as an Adventure)

    Walking in the forest isn’t just about tiring the kids out, so bedtime runs smoothly — it’s actually good for you. For all of you. A good stomp among the trees can – reduce stress (deep breaths, no WiFi), improve your mood (unless someone falls in a puddle, but that’s character building), and get your heart pumping (especially if you’re pushing a pram through mud so thick you’re up to your nips in it).

    It’s also a great way to reconnect with your family. Being outdoors and surrounded by nature gives you lots to talk about and bond over some tree hugging (if that’s your thing).

    For the kids, it’s sensory heaven.

    Rustling leaves, squelchy mud, birdsong, squirrel sightings — it’s like CBeebies, but better. And if you’re lucky, you might spot some of the New Forest ponies, deer, or even some really big scary looking cows!

    My Favourite (Pram-Friendly!) Forest Walks

    If you’re local or visiting the area, here are our Top 3 Family & Pram-Friendly Walks in the New Forest that won’t leave you sweating through your raincoat or swearing under your breath (too much).

    All three have great parking, are perfect for bikes, and offer circular routes with options to make your walk longer or shorter depending on how much time you’ve got. Just a heads up — none of these are scooter-friendly.

    🌲 1. Dibden Inclosure
    Ideal for prams and bikes, with flat gravel paths and plenty of space to explore. The circular route means you can tailor the walk to fit your schedule. While scooters aren’t suitable here due to some uneven sections, it’s a lovely mix of open areas and woodland where you can usually spot ponies near the car park — and yes, there’s always a rogue puddle ready to surprise you.

    🦌 2. Deerleap, New Forest
    A hidden gem with wide, easy tracks perfect for prams and bikes. The circular route offers flexibility for shorter or longer adventures. You’ll find actual peace and quiet here (until the kids start shouting about who found the best stick). Keep your eyes peeled for deer, and enjoy the shady spots perfect for summer walks.

    🌳 3. Hawk Hill Inclosure
    A beautiful spot all year round. Think golden autumn leaves, spring wildflowers, and that lush, mossy green in winter. Pram and bike-friendly circular paths with some fallen logs for impromptu balance beam practice, and plenty of options to make your walk just right.

    Henry age 7. Loves a log.

    All-Year Beauty & Free Fun
    Rain or shine, the forest always shows up.

    It’s gorgeous in every season — from the crunchy leaves of autumn to the fairy-tale fog of winter and the butterfly-chasing days of summer. Just make sure to bring wellies and a sense of adventure.

    And best of all? It’s totally free.
    No entry fees. No overpriced cafés selling dry flapjacks. Just you, the kids, some squirrels, and a bag full of increasingly suspicious-looking pebbles.

    Chilling in someone’s den. Henry aged 7.

    Final Thoughts: Just Go Outside
    Whether you’re trying to avoid soft play, reset your mind, wear out the kids, or just avoid cleaning the house for an hour, a walk in the forest is always a good idea.

    So next time cabin fever hits, stick on the waterproofs, embrace the mud (and trust me, I’ve been there), and go get your boots dirty. Who knows what you’ll find — a stick, a snail, a moment of peace — or maybe even your sanity again.

    Chasing another sunset. Henry aged 8.

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  • Motherhood, Mess, and Morning Magic: How I Survive the Chaos

    Motherhood, Mess, and Morning Magic: How I Survive the Chaos

    Leaving the house with a 9-year-old and a 9-month-old feels like my brain is being trampled by elephants. Breakfast? Forget it. Most mornings, I grab my coffee, bang down some vitamins chased with an electrolyte, and pray for survival. One coffee? Barely a warm-up for the chaos that hits before 8 a.m.


    To keep myself going, I rely on a few non-negotiable morning lifesavers:

    1. Collagen-loaded coffee – a little morning magic that wakes me up and sneaks in some skincare.

    2. A solid multivitamin – the tiny capsule that convinces my body it’s ready to adult.

    3. Electrolytes – a quick hydration boost that keeps me steady and alert when chaos hits.

    It’s amazing how these little things — simple rituals I can actually fit in — make such a big difference in how I feel for the rest of the day. You don’t have to over-complicate your morning routine; a few small steps are enough to help you feel centered, energized, and ready to face the chaos.

    Once I’m armed with these essentials, it’s time to move. Walking — whether through a forest or a slow neighbourhood stroll — isn’t just exercise; it’s a full reset. Fresh air clears my mind, birdsong soothes my nerves, and just seeing trees or clouds lowers stress and boosts mood.

    The walk isn’t just for me. My baby gets fresh air, gentle movement, and new sights to stimulate their senses and encourage calm. Seeing Ivy’s little face light up at the sight of the trees makes the morning mayhem worth it. Those moments outdoors work a quiet kind of magic, letting both of us recharge before stepping back into the day.

    By the time we return, something shifts. I feel calmer, clearer, and more capable — like the chaos has been put on pause for just a moment. I can make better choices, tackle small tasks, and approach my kids with a little more patience. Tiny wins pile up, and suddenly, the messy, caffeine-fueled mornings don’t feel quite so impossible. Plus, it gives the mental space for the odd kitchen dance party with Ivy which she loves!

    Some mornings are messy and far from perfect. But carving out small moments for myself — a bit of quiet, a little movement, a few rituals that center me — helps me feel grounded, capable, and ready to face the day. These tiny pockets of calm make the chaos bearable, the small victories noticeable, and even the busiest mornings feel unexpectedly magical. Because, let’s face it, one day the school run and these mornings will be a thing of the past and most surely missed!

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